Eloping has a long history, and for many years, it was considered a secret and sometimes shameful way to get married. But over time, attitudes towards eloping have changed, and it is now seen as a romantic and intimate way to start a marriage.
In the past, eloping was often viewed as a scandalous and impulsive decision, especially for couples who were young or came from different social classes. Families would often disapprove and disown the couple, and society would often stigmatize them. This is why many people kept their elopements a secret and would go away to another city or state.
But as times have changed, people are starting to see the beauty in eloping. Many couples today choose to elope because they want to have a private and intimate ceremony without the stress and expense of a traditional wedding. They see eloping as a way to focus on the love and commitment they have for each other, rather than the wedding planning and family drama.
These days, eloping can be whatever the hell you want them to be!! Thats the best part about eloping – the only rules are the ones YOU want to create. You can do it just the two of you, or you can include some friends and fam! To learn more about how to elope with some guests, check out this amazing blog post from a fellow Colorado Elopement Photographer Instead of running away in secret, eloping has taken on a new, modernized definition. An elopement is an intimate exchanging of vows — a day planned with intention and authenticity. Instead of making decisions for others to make sure your 300 person party is a good time for everyone else, planning your elopement is a constant conversation of “what does YOUR best day look like?” and “what is involved in making your wedding day the most authentic reflection of you two as a couple?”.
Additionally, societal and cultural change have made it more acceptable for people to have different types of weddings. With the rise of the digital age, and social media, people are more open to different styles of wedding, and it is more common to see elopements featured on Instagram, blogs and wedding websites. This helped to change the perception of elopements as something to be ashamed of, and instead something to be proud of.
Overall, eloping has come a long way from its scandalous roots. It is now seen as a romantic and intimate way to start a marriage, and many couples are proud to share their elopement stories with the world. It is a special way to start a new chapter of life, and now more than ever, it is an option that should be celebrated.
Choosing to elope does not mean you have to skimp on romance or intimacy. Instead, it is a way for the couple to celebrate their love and commitment in a way that feels true to them, without the pressures and expectations of a traditional wedding. All in all, we think eloping is the shit and that there is a way to elope for everyone! Check out our top reasons we think you should elope (and bring us along!) here :)
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